THE LEADER IN YOU

So guys! this one is for the leader in you. I had attended a workshop a few weeks back about how to be a better leader. The main point that struck me was that a leader is someone who brings up the best of the group members and is someone who shares the knowledge that he has. So keeping that in my mind , here I present to you 50 points that you should remember to be a better leader. So let us get started .

1. Accept responsibility
2. Smile and be kind
3. Don't criticize and complain
4. Praise-correct-praise  - Apply this method; praise your team members first then slowly point out the mistake ,correct them and praise them once again.
5. Be ready to accept the change.
6. Give honest and sincere appreciation 
7. Be a role model
8. Practice humility
9. Show empathy
10. Don't be sarcastic and put others down
11. Be understanding and caring
12. Going together to success- bring your team members together and take them to success along with you
13. Reinvent yourself
14. You are unstoppable
15. Have a vision
16. Prepare to lead
17. Set high standards
18. Grow your thinking
19. Be optimistic
20. Have a positive attitude 
21. Remove fear of failure
22. Stop comparing with others
23. Be ready to stretch
24. Control your ego
25. Admit mistakes
26. A never give up attitude
27. Perfect time management
28. Focus
29. Have positive expectations
30. Create a spirit to win
31. Know your team goals
32. Ensure what is the goal and how to achieve it
33. Create opportunities
34. 100% commitment
35. Make the team work together
36. Encourage each other
37. Trust each other
38. Our belief is the fertile land
39. Desire to grow
40. First comes action then confidence
41. Share ideas and thoughts
42. Do things you have never done before
43. positive thinking
44. Good fit
45. Strong 'why?' - eagerness to know
46. Work smart
47. Express caring
48. Listen to yourself
49. Mind should have a good picture
50. Choose your words carefully 

And there are a few quotes that inspired me!

"If your actions inspire others to dream more,learn more,do more and become more, you are a leader "

~John Quincy Adams

"You are the creator of your own destiny"

"Leadership is all about making difference in others life" 

There you go....50  points of leadership qualities and a few quotes that is going to help you out in being a better leader. Practice these out; Be a better leader; And run behind excellency to achieve success.

MY FINAL YEAR AT NALANDA

Finally the time has arrived to bid goodbye to all those wonderful moments that i had with all my sweethearts. Well as you all know every moment of school's final year has something special in it. Even if it is sweet or sour or even bitter at times. Each moment is priceless that we wish it never gets over. Tiring days , bad testpapers , yummy canteen food!ummmmm!!! and speaking louder than ever in the library. Pushing your friend from the chairs and then they hit us back. And there is no body who has never entered the  principal's room. Oooopssyyy!!! Did i just make u remember all those group as well as individual activities that took you to the Principal's room?! Well well.. Even i have got in there many a times . (I m not gonna say the reason buhaaahhhaaaa!!! Lol!). 

How can i forget the days of examinations? Even the enemy becomes a helping hand when we don't remember our answers.Then comes the day of our results. Some get high ... Some get low. .and some poor fellows don't even pass their exams. Once i got low... Very low in english... Ummm...(i can't tell how much ha ! Pls). And i was screwed by my parents....so much... That i have improved a lot and i score very high in English. 

I didn't talk about my friends right? Yeah I have just got 3 friends...  Ah! Let me just correct that sentence a bit... I have got 4 best friends.. And I would let you know their names too..  Sriram , Mahima , and Vaibhav and The 3 crazy devils that I have met.. (Love you guys). Now you will be confused.. Why on earth am i just having 3 friends. The reason is very simple. I believe in making true friends. They were the only people who stood besides me when I was going through the most terrible condition of my life.

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What i like about Nalanda Public School is that.. The teachers, the non teaching staff, The management all are so friendly... A very friendly atmosphere. We can actually go and share our problems with our Principal R Jaisree ma'am ( mom i must say). Eventhough I like all the teachers, a very few has a special place in this teeny heart of mine.. They are.. My principal Jaisree ma'am, Lailaja Miss ( My fav Hindi teacher) , Geetha Devi miss ( Magical ... She made me fall in love with maths) , Muthulakshmi miss ( social science teacher) ... Last but not the least.. My current class teacher.. Roopika miss... Oh! My God!! She is the most sweetest and the most amazing physics teacher... 

I have learnt a few things from here..

(i). Never be the reason for somebody's tears.

(ii). Whenever someone needs help , don't even care what they have done to you , always remain a helping hand and a pillar of strength in their bad times. Because at the end it's not between you and that person.. It's between you and God.

Well right now i am doing my 12th grade and it will end soon.

I will be sad to leave my school but excited at the same time because i will soon start a new phase of my journey.

So...remember folks!! " It is not your past , it is you who decides your future".

Wishing all the students good luck for their upcoming board exams. Do well guys and pass with flying colours.

MJ

His arrival into our lives
was nothing less than a miracle
The star that fell from the sky
had now made its way onto the stage.

That face had a special glow
Those eyes were shimmering like gold
That smile melted a thousand little hearts
That voice mesmerized every single soul .

It was like he caste a spell over us
Day and night we listened to his voice
Every single day, every single moment,
that one handsome face flashed into our minds.

Not only his voice , but his grooves too
were creating an unforgettable history
The legend was just magical,his voice,
his grooves , everything were just magical.

His love was like the rain,
taking away tears along with it.
His arrival was like a thunderstorm
It made our hearts skip a beat.

But the rain had to go
The thunder had to stop
God tried to defeat the legend
He took him away from us.

"In a world filled with hate
we must still dare to hope"
and our hope defeated God
and the legend remains immortal in our heart.

RAIN

Sitting on a chair in my yard
I looked up at the sky
I saw soft cotton balls floating
which soon turned into something dark.

A bright light came down
The thud that followed made me jump
I looked up puzzled and suddenly
a splash of water fell on my face

The splash of water had something,
something really very special in it
It made a naughty happy child
in me wake up and dance

I was dancing like a mad girl
I was jumping with joy
until i noticed something-
really different out there

The dry fields quenched their thirst
The beautiful blooms felt so fresh
The cold splash left a smile where
Mr.Sun had left a burn.

It continued to rain until Mr.Sun
came up again, brighter and stronger
The soft cotton balls had now replaced
the dark tremendous clouds.

I was really very sad when Mr.Sun
came up and spread his brightness again
But i was happy when Mr.Sun
surprised me with a rainbow.

Sitting on that same chair
I looked up at the sky once again
I saw those pretty cotton balls
and Mr.Sun who was smiling at me

 

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CHANGE THE WAY YOU LOOK AT YOURSELF

"OH ! WHAT WILL BE OTHERS THINKING ABOUT ME ?" This is a question that automatically comes into our mind . Most of us are conscious about what others think about us. And then we start to assume how they think about us and most probably come into a negative conclusion and then we start to feel bad. But is it really necessary to think about how others look at us? I don't think so. I believe that one shouldn't think about all these because it is not actually easy to change others mentality, how others look at you. But ,yes, it is not impossible. The only way to change how other look at you lies in how you look at yourself.

If you think you aren't so beautiful in your physical  appearance, just start accepting the fact that you are beautiful.Believe me! Just don't care how others think about your appearance. Always wear a smile on your face, keep it simple, be polite and there you go you are the most beautiful person alive on earth. Physical appearance is not something which actually go over a drastic change when u meet with an accident. We can't predict how long you will remain beautiful or good looking. But what matters is your inner beauty. It is what makes you beautiful. Carry your personality in the most beautiful form. If you are worried about your physical appearance , I've one simple tip which will help you out. Mark my words " Simplicity when carried to extreme becomes elegance". Remain simple but yet very elegant.

Now the next part is loving yourself. Yup! have you ever thought of how it feels like falling for yourself ?
It is the most beautiful feeling. It is said that in order to love others, you need to love yourself. How to fall in love with yourself? Well, pretty simple. Say those 3 magical words to yourself. Now you guys are like what? You will be thinking has this stupid girl tried all these before. Of course i have. Everyday I say "I love you"
to myself and then give away  some flying kisses to myself.  And within days I found that I have fallen madly in love with me.

These are some simple tricks that will keep you going in your life. You will notice that you are not alone anymore. Because you are your own best friend! Talk to yourself , be crazy be happy and enjoy life and mark my words you are going to be the happiest person alive on earth..... so guys change the way you look at yourself.

FRIENDSHIP

Goodbyes are not forever,nor are they the end. They just simply mean we will miss you until we meet again.

but saying goodbyes to your loved ones is very difficult. It is true,time never waits for anyone. Some people come late into our life and leave early.But they always leave behind a very beautiful memory for us to cherish in our entire lifetime. It is said that distance make a relationship much more stronger.

Yes,it does. When I think of my best friend , I almost feel like crying because I miss him. But I am happy because our relationship is so strong that most of our classmates are jealous of us. It is almost like our fate is playing a prank on us. There have been situations in which we were so nearby to each other but failed to meet each other. We had fought with each other , We have cried for each other.We were best friends...We are best friends...and we will remain best friends. Life isn't fair! People come into our life in order to go away. There are mainly two kinds of people that come into our life.

the ones who break our heart and bring about a change and the others who stay with us and instead of breaking us apart ,they transform us into a much more beautiful form of what we are. Takes away our negative thoughts and brings in positivity. The second kind are our true friends. 

Always remember true friends are not the ones who wipe our tears, they are the ones who cry with us and give us their shoulders so that we can ruin it with our tears. Our smile is what makes them happy. God has created some angels and then he just sent them into our lives . These angels are non other than our best friends.I would rather choose my best friends and not wealth because their love and their presence is much more worthier than the most expensive things of this world. Once love asked friendship "why do you exist when I am already in this world?" so friendship smiled and replied " In order to bring smile to that face where you leave a tear" . The bond of friendship is stronger than the bond of love.... !!!!! So always cherish each and every moment you spent with your friends....not friends...TRUE FRIENDS!!!

I AM THE CHANGE ! ARE YOU ?

Sometimes i think,why were we born? I haven't found the answer yet.But i believe that each and everyone of us were born so as to do our specific duties that God has  left for us. I have never understood the need of religion in our lives. People fight on the basis of religion. According to me we just need to believe in God and be afraid of him. Maybe religions are a way to worship God. But I wonder even though God didn't keep any difference while creating us then why are we creating a difference. According to me humanity and love should be our religion. There are rich and poor , powerful and vulnerable. Have you ever wondered why God created rich? God created rich in order to be a helping hand to the poor. But how many of the rich and powerful does that? Some try to ruin the life of the poor in order to make their life better. 

We all go to our respective worshiping places and offer something or the other to God. We are glad to do that. But why are we not so glad enough to give something to the poor? We won't loose anything if we do so. Instead we will gain blessings from God. Everybody wants a change in the country,but nobody is ready to change their attitude nor their mentality towards certain things. If people begin to change so does each locality . If each locality changes so does the state and when each state bring about a change in their point of view,the whole country changes. Gandhi once said "Be the change you want to see in the world". He was right! Be the change and raise your voice for the welfare of the society. I am the change I want to see in this wold. Are you? Well think about it my dear friends because your thoughts when put into action ,it can bring a change in the society ......